Posted on August 10, 2014
For centuries women have gathered in circles to share stories, wisdom and encouragement. Tia Walker, author, coach, speaker and business consultant wanted to bring that sense of community to a printed format. Walker teamed up with multitalented Ani Yufe, interior designer and executive director for Inspirique, to create more connectedness instead of competition, among ambitious professional female entrepreneurs.
Insperique is a new magazine that shares stories of inspiring and powerful business women in the San Diego area. The goal with the magazine is to create infinite possibilities for the community trough authenticity and real-life success stories . What a fabulous concept!
Ani called me up and asked if I was interested in contributing, and how can one say no to such an incredible opportunity? What an honor!
To be featured in Inspirique has truly showed me that I am on the right path and that I should keep following my dreams. I feel so incredibly fortunate to make a living doing what I absolutely LOVE to do- to empower women trough my photography!
I attended the soft launch party at the Marina Cortez this weekend. Such a beautiful evening with kind and interesting women who shared stories and genuinely connected.
I believe Tia and Ani have succeeded perfectly with Inspirique’s mission and wish the all the best on their new endeavor~
A special thank you to Laena Ray with the Liquid Lens Photography, who captured my portrait
Posted on May 13, 2014
Have you ever had the feeling of “not being good enough”? From the moment we wake up we are literarily bombarded with ads in magazines, commercials on TV, in the media and in music that tells us what we should eat, how we should act and how we should look. Biologically we are wired to believe what we see is real but how does that work in a world of photoshop and digital body manipulation?
You might think that you aren’t effected by advertising but the truth is that we are on average exposed to 3000 ads a day. Yes, 3000 ads A DAY! They are impossible to ignore and the only way to get a way form the feeling of “I’m not skinny enough” and “I’m not pretty enough” is to have a healthy understanding of reality and how to relate to what are unreal measurements. Advertising is ALWAYS about money and/or control.
In todays society 98% of girls feel there is an immense pressure from external sources to look a certain way. Those numbers show that there is an outcry for help and education in this matter. The way we perceive our appearance and relate to our bodies can impact everything from our self-esteem to our relationships to the way we live and lead.
I photographed 10 lovely young women (see images below) from the incredible organization Heart of Leadership in San Diego earlier this year. The purpose was to show the girls how incredibly beautiful each and everyone of them are just the way they are. Without photoshopping. The images came out fantastic and will be displayed along with an essay from each girl on the topic of Body Image at the Heart of Leadership Speaker Series Event.
What: Interactive panel discussions addressing real teen-relevant body image topics for middle and high school women and the adults who support them.
When: Wednesday May 28th 6pm-8.30pm
Where: the Great Hall, UC San Diego
Cost: $15 advanced purchase, $20 at the door For more info and registration please visit: http://www.heartofleadership.org/events/body-image-2014/
I invite you to join us in supporting wholehearted lives for young women, where they can grow and thrive- Just the way they are.
In Grace & Gratitude
PS, I highly recommend Jean Kilbourne’s DVD “Killing us softly” and Jackson Katz’s DVD “Tough Guise; Violence, Media and the Crisis in Masculinity” on the topic of the impacts of today’s media and the fabulous book “The gifts of imperfection” by Brené Brown.
Posted on April 27, 2014
We hear the word “pride” and automatically retreat into our subtle shells. No one wants to be considered vain in our society. But a short visit to Webster’s Dictionary shows that vanity is defined as: an excessive pride in one’s appearance, qualities, abilities, and achievements. Note the keyword here is excessive.
A healthy dose of each PRIDE quality listed is actually necessary to embody a fulfilled sense of self – as a woman, and as anybody.
Compare it to “rain” versus “flood”. One is healthy nourishment; the other is detrimental excess. The same goes with the amount of PRIDE we possess. Without a healthy dose of rain or PRIDE, our zest for life is sure to wilt.
A thought to think on: How do we react when we see babies admire their reflection? We think it is cute! We even encourage them to keep doing it; complimenting them on how “pretty” or “handsome” they are. When does this display of self-admiration take such a harsh paradoxical turn? When women are in a shared bathroom now, we hardly even glance at the mirror – OR if we are looking at the mirror, the second we hear a stall open or another woman approach, we are heads down and out of there. Somewhere along the line, it became socially unacceptable to be “caught” admiring your appearance. We even call any piece of furniture containing a mirror, a “vanity”. My my, the irony of it all.
What we’ve seen more than ever in this day and age is the need for healthy female role models. And part of that healthy algorithm is a healthy dose of PRIDE in one’s self.
How do you embody and portray your PRIDE?
When was the last time you strutted your stuff confidentially? When did you last pay yourself a genuine compliment? And when was the last time you looked in the mirror and admired yourself?
Those are questions every woman should ask herself. And it is my mission to capture the PRIDE within each of you. Before even stepping in front of a lens, I want you to answer those very questions.
It’s time to shift our stigma on PRIDE.
PRIDE is rain to the soul. It is appreciation for your very creation. It’s a celebration of originality, life, YOU!
How will you share your PRIDE today?